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How to Look Smart And Feel Smarter Every Day

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Aryel Narvasa
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Who does not want to be smart these days? Whether it is to impress others or for one’s own satisfaction, smartness is something that everyone wants to possess. Contrary to the belief that smartness is innate or inherited, it is actually possible to become smarter through our interactions with the environment, that is, the way we conduct ourselves or the way we behave in a society.
Following are tips that should be known or could be followed to become smarter:
First and foremost, you should become well versed in the art of holding your tongue, not literally, but figuratively. The less you talk, the more you can listen. And, it goes without saying that listening leads to learning. When you are quiet, you get the time to observe and understand before you can react and respond at the appropriate timing. As the saying goes, wisdom is cultivated in silence.

Secondly, it’s important to learn to control your emotions. This entails having a tight leash over your anger. There are various kinds of situations and people that you can avoid to save your energy. Like, avoid toxic people, stay away from fake and irrational people and don’t just go about blindly trusting everyone.

Thirdly, try turning away from a dispute as much as possible. The best way to do this is by avoiding misunderstandings, by talking with people in a straightforward manner rather than behind their back. As it goes, communication is the key. Sometimes, it’s better to talk it out and sort things face to face, than involving a third person and making things complicated.

Fourthly and most importantly, work your brain more than your body. This doesn’t mean playing games on your phone all day long. It would do you better to install apps that provides your brain with much needed exercise, such as puzzles and word/ vocabulary games.

Next, remember to think twice before you act, because a once you shoot the arrow, it can’t be taken back. So, learn to stick to your decision long term. This will save you a lot of time and energy and make you ‘smart.’

Also, don't aim for the moon just because everyone is doing it. Aim for what you think you want to achieve, something that will possibly make you happy. And, remember to have a career, a hobby because no one likes associating with idlers.

This is probably the most important one: read. Yes, it’s not just sufficient to buy books or just to read your academic books. Broaden your horizon and read about anything and everything from newspaper to fiction and non-fiction. This is your most reliable way to acquire knowledge and let’s not forget that this is the habit of most successful people.

Stop consuming content that isn’t necessary in achieving your goals. It takes up mind space. The first few hours of your day is when your brain is at its best performance. Don’t let this potentiality go to waste by consuming unnecessary content which will take up your time and sidetrack you. if you really do have to do something like talking to your friends or surfing the net, wait till the end of the day and keep it to maximum thirty minutes. This will make a huge impact on your memory, work and the conversation you have with people and ineveitably, make you smarter.

The golden rule of appearing smart is to learn how to earn your own money. It would not only reduce the load on your parents but, also give you mental satisfaction.

Do away with the consumption of alcohol. No matter how strong your stomach is, alcohol is stronger. It’s going to have its effect in the long run. Similarly, abandon other unhealthy habits like smoking, too.

Remember that, no matter what you do, or wherever you are, there will always be atleast one person who will try to rain on your parade by criticizing your work. Your best bet is to either learn from it if it’s constructive in nature or ignore it completely. There’s no use of mulling over it, and overanalyzing things because that’s exactly what they want you to do. It would do you good to keep in mind that, not everyone wants you to succeed, and 'you' are on the top of that list. Get over it.

Practicality doesn’t necessarily mean smart. That doesn't make sentimental smart. And, logic isn't always right. There is no right or wrong in reality. Ethics vary. There are no constant rules, and no constants. And, life goes on with or without love.

Give and take doesn't work. That doesn’t mean that only give always or take always is the right approach. This is something where your intuition needs to do some work and make a smart decision.

It’s true that looks matter and even what comes out of your mouth in the form of words, matter. But, personality matters more where smartness is concerned. Remember to be presentable at all times. Maintain yourself and dress up properly. Focus on the topmost and lowermost part of your attire, that is your hair and shoes as these are the most noticed things.

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