Dating Tips and Advice - Instant Infatuation
http://instantinfatuation.com/ <br />Get immediate access to "Instant Infatuation Formula" from the Penguin Method. <br />http://instantinfatuation.com/ <br />http://penguinmethod.info/ <br /> <br />Women ask me all the time, "How do I make sure my needs get met in a relationship without being pushy or demanding?" <br /> <br />This has to do with making requests from your feminine energy. Being feminine has such a huge power attached to it, especially once you learn how to communicate from that place. <br /> <br />Everyone has the dynamics of masculine and feminine energy inside of them - and we draw upon those different energies in different areas of our lives. <br /> <br />Masculine energy is all about doing, planning, thinking, and making decisions. When you're working, raising children, or tackling that "to-do" list, you're in your masculine energy. Giving and nurturing are actually masculine qualities - they're about DOING. <br /> <br />Feminine energy is receptive. It's all about being, receiving, experiencing, and expressing. <br /> <br />In order to get your needs met while staying in your feminine energy, it's all about the way you express those needs. <br /> <br />Here's the basic template: "I feel __________." <br />Fill in the blank with an emotion - don't say, "I feel that you should __________." Try to not even use the word "you" here. Keep in mind that men don't like to be told what to do or what they "should" be doing. <br /> <br />This works best when it's a POSITIVE emotion. An example would be, "I feel cherished when my car door is opened for me" - rather than, "I feel uncared for when you don't open my car door." <br /> <br />This isn't about manipulating a man into doing whatever you want - it's about expressing your needs around things that TRULY matter to you. <br /> <br />When a man does what you've requested, you want to show appreciation. <br /> <br />You don't have to reciprocate by giving HIM something - because what he really wants is appreciation and acknowledgment for what he's done and who he is. This is the fuel that's going to drive him in the relationship. <br /> <br />Remember, it's not about him and what he's doing or not doing - it's about YOU and what makes you feel good. <br />Once you make your request in this way, you want to lean back and watch what he does. <br /> <br />Does he step up or not? Does he take your feelings into account, or does he dismiss them? <br /> <br />If a man doesn't take your feelings into account - or if he doesn't want you to feel cherished by him - move on! That's not a good guy to be with. <br /> <br />A good, masculine energy man will want his woman to feel cherished by HIM specifically. This is biological. <br />If you're with a good man who wants to make you happy - and you make your request but he doesn't step up right away, it doesn't mean that he doesn't care about you. <br /> <br />Get the Instant Infatuation Ebook, Relationship Advice for Women now from Samantha Sanderson. <br />http://instantinfatuation.com/ <br />http://penguinmethod.info/ <br /> <br />Dating Tips, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Instant Infatuation, Love Dating Tips
